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Saw an interesting blurb on Carl Trueman (a man whom I respect), his wife, and their respective reading habits over on Scripture Zealot. Go give that a read and then come back to this conversation.
In light of the question put to Dr. Trueman’s wife, I just asked my wife how important it is that she read everything I read. She responded that she couldn’t keep up, and that, so long as I communicate the important things that I’m learning, she feels up to speed.
What in the sam hell would make anyone think that a seminary professor’s wife ought to be up to speed on his reading. I really have a feeling of pity for the wife of the seminarian who thinks that she needs to keep up on all her husband’s reading. There are really only a few options: 1) The poor woman’s deluded, and her husband needs to give her a good talkin’ to, 2) she’s a super scholar (in which case my feeling of pity is gone), or 3) her husband is taking, at most, a one-credit class in seminary, and not even doing all the reading for that. I remember reading constantly in seminary. I think my wife, to make sure I didn’t starve whilst in seminary, would manually feed me as I read… that was actually a good set up.
Of the options, I suspect that #1 is the case. She’s got some sort of burden that is not at all in keeping with being a wife and help meet. A wife certainly oughtn’t be her husband; she needs to help him do what God’s called him to do.
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